The Curious Case of Consultation Complacency: Why Some Business Owners Don’t Follow Through
In my experience providing paid consultations to small business owners, I often find myself in a unique position that feels more akin to a therapist than a strategist. Many of these entrepreneurs come to me seeking advice on how to improve their presence on Instagram. They typically express their desire for increased engagement, enhanced reach, and overall growth. I genuinely enjoy these sessions, especially when I see clients who are fully committed to making positive changes. For them, the results can be nothing short of transformative.
However, it’s perplexing to observe that a significant number of clients don’t apply the insights we discuss. Despite the depth of our conversation—covering vital aspects like brand clarity, effective messaging, content strategy, bio enhancements, and even establishing a deeper connection with their audience—many individuals leave the call without taking any actionable steps.
It seems they may have paid simply to express their frustrations rather than to implement the strategies we discussed. This leaves me questioning the rationale behind it.
Perhaps I’m just wired differently, but if I were managing a business, I would be deeply invested in its success. I would strive to understand my customers and their needs because, ultimately, that’s where my revenue would originate. So, I find myself genuinely puzzled: why invest in professional guidance but choose not to apply it? Why settle for a half-hearted approach to something you claim to want to develop?
Is this a common issue, or am I merely encountering a select group of clients who aren’t ready to fully engage in their growth journey? I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this matter. Are there others out there who face similar challenges with their consultations?
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Thank you for sharing these insights—it’s a topic that resonates deeply within the coaching and consulting space. The phenomenon you’re describing often boils down to mindset and readiness for change. Sometimes, clients may seek external validation or a sense of progress without truly being prepared to implement the necessary actions. It could also stem from fear of change, overwhelm, or a lack of clear internal motivation.
A helpful approach might be to incorporate a “commitment phase” at the end of your sessions, where clients articulate specific, measurable goals and identify their “why” behind these actions. Regular follow-ups or accountability check-ins can also foster a sense of responsibility and momentum. Ultimately, understanding where your clients are psychologically and emotionally can help tailor your approach—whether they’re genuinely ready to grow or still need time to align their mindset with their business ambitions.
Your role as a strategist often extends beyond providing advice; guiding clients to overcome internal barriers can be just as vital as strategizing their next move. Have you considered integrating mindset or readiness assessments into your consultations? It might help distinguish those truly prepared to implement from those still navigating their inner obstacles.